“Are women who give birth not human beings?”
Koreaboo
BTOB‘s Minhyuk is under fire for messages sent on a fan chatting platform.
On the Fromm fan messaging platform, Minhyuk sent messages about attending a friend’s wedding and reassuring fans about his energy levels. After sending multiple messages about this, the idol mentioned that many of his friends had gotten married and sent a message saying, “please contribute to the birth rate, my friends.”
Minhyuk: There have been so many weddings.
Minhyuk: Everyone is leaving.
Minhyuk: Please contribute to the birthrate, my friends
Minhyuk: It’s a concern for our country
Minhyuk: I’m sure they will do it on their own.
He continued to talk about the topic, mentioning a friend who now had 3 children, calling them a “patriot.”
Minhyuk: Among the group, one of them already has three kids.
Minhyuk: Yes, a patriot.
Minhyuk: It’s impressive.
Minhyuk: LOL it’s funny.
Minhyuk: A person taking care of a child, a person watching an idol, a person being an idol.
Across the world, headlines about Korea’s declining birthrate have been a topic and only increased as it drops further. Recently, it was announced that it fell to 0.72, meaning that for every 100 women, 72 children are born.
This stat is well below the average 2.1 needed to maintain the population.
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While the government has spent billions to address the issue, many young Korean women have stated that the issues go beyond childcare costs and include job security, living costs, and (sometimes violent) misogyny.
Because carrying the child falls is the woman’s responsibility (and childcare in the current society falls heavily on women), many felt Minhyuk’s comments were not appropriate for a man to make and were sexist. Even further, many felt it was wrong for the idol to send the messages to fans.
아니 대체 애도 못낳는 사람이 남한테 출산율에 기여하라는말 쉽게하는겨?
출산이 뭐 뚝딱되는줄아나
낳는 여자는 뭐 사람도 아닌가.— 하네스 연성하면 저 태그 부탁드립니다 여러분 감사합니다 (@HyeonWol_all) March 9, 2024
너가 낳던가 쟨 또 뭐야 여팬 가득한 버블에 출산율 높여달란말은 왜해 니가 낳을거니? 네가 낳을수 있어도 그렇게 말할거니?
— 돌양 (@dolyang_) March 9, 2024
아 제발 애낳으라마라하는 남자새끼들 ㅈㄴ싫음
— 숙희 (@ouveaxxu) March 9, 2024
드러누워서 키보드 토독치면서 이딴 말 지껄이지말고 니나 아이돌 관두고 장가나 가라
— 쌉 (@z_ssap) March 9, 2024
가르치려는 말투라 존나 어이없음 그리고 팬들 애 낳으면 애키우느라 다 떠날텐데 제정신인가
— 양도계 & 덕질계 (@z94uxjcihqk6ztm) March 9, 2024
이런 샹 진짜,,, 나한테 왜그러냐,,, 내가 직장 상사들한테나 듣던 고나리질 은근한 성희롱 같던 그 말을 지금 내가 덕질하려고 하던 아이돌한테 듣기? 진짜 짜친다,,, 아 어이없어,,, 시발,,, 처음으로 팬콘 가보고 콘서트도 나중에 가보려고 했더니 응 안가 평생 갠덕이나 해야지 썅
— #그림쟁이 Koseo님 (@Bang_Koseo) March 9, 2024
- Why do people easily tell those who cannot even have children to contribute to the birth rate? Do they think childbirth is easy? Are women who give birth not human beings?
- Why don’t you give birth? What’s with him? Why do you ask to increase the birth rate in a bubble full of female fans? Why would you say to increase the birthrate in a bubble full of female fans? Are you going to give birth? Even if you could give birth, why would you say that?
- Oh, please. I really dislike men who tell others to have children.
- Lying down and typing nonsense on the keyboard, just quit being an idol and get married.
- Your attempt at teaching is so ridiculous. Also, suggesting that fans should have children, they’ll all leave because they’ll be busy raising kids. Are you in your right mind?
- This is just unbelievable… Why would you do this to me? The same subtle harassment I used to hear from my superiors at work, which felt like sexual harassment, I’m now hearing from the idol I was beginning to be a fan of? It’s really infuriating… Oh, unbelievable… Damn it… I was planning to go to my first fan convention and even attend their concert later, but now I don’t want to go anymore. I guess I’ll have to be a loner for the rest of my life. Damn it.
Around the world, people about to bear children have reacted negatively to being told what to do with their bodies, and this seems to be another instance of this.
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